Escaping the “Overloaded Trap”
Have you ever felt like you had too much on your plate, like you didn’t have time for anything? This is what I call the “overloaded trap.” It’s when you take on way too much, spread yourself thin, and don’t know how to make changes without feeling like everything will collapse if you do. This mindset keeps you stuck in a constant loop of exhaustion and frustration.
Many women fall into this “overloaded trap.” For some, the source is the inability to say no. For others, it’s the inability to delegate. And for some, it’s the feeling that being busy equals being accomplished, even if that busyness prevents you from devoting quality time to what truly matters. Sometimes it’s pride. Other times, it’s a subtle manifestation of fear.
One of the most fascinating parts of this trap is seeing women decline help. I’ve watched moments where someone offered to lighten their load, yet they turned it down, unknowingly fueling the ongoing cycle of overload.
Of course, there is wisdom in discerning who helps you. But what if that person was sent by God to help you?
You see, the “overloaded trap” is essentially a distraction. It robs you of deep connection with others and, more importantly, with God. Breaking free from it requires humility.
“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” – 1 Peter 5:5
In the very next verse, Scripture says:
“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7
There’s an order here. First, humble yourself. Then, cast all your anxiety on Him. Humility opens the door for healing and rest in God’s care.
The world wants you to believe that busyness equals productivity. But if your busyness pulls you away from spending time with God and listening for His direction through His Word and the Holy Spirit, are you truly being fruitful? Or as fruitful as He desires you to be? It’s something worth reflecting on.
Today, take a moment to evaluate your life and ask yourself if there are any blind spots. You were never meant to take on life alone or feel overwhelmed by it.
There will be seasons of busyness, yes, but if it’s a never-ending cycle that doesn’t lead to righteousness or fruitfulness in the way God intends, it’s time for a change.
“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” – Matthew 6:33
The kingdom of God and His righteousness must come first. Man’s version of righteousness, living for appearances or performative busyness, is not the same as God’s righteousness, which flows from deep devotion to His will, not our own.
Many women struggle with feeling overloaded and stretched too thin. The “overloaded trap” often comes from pride, fear, or the pressure to do it all. This devotional reminder encourages you to pause, humble yourself before God, and trust His direction. True fruitfulness comes not from endless busyness but from resting in His will and righteousness.